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Tuesday, May 22, 2012

I already have lost part of my heart in Africa


The trip was strenuous yet enjoyable. It took four full days for us to travel from various parts of America to Chimala, Tanzania. I thought it was very interesting that of the seven nursing students we are all from different states. It’s amazing how people can come from across the US and gather together to work toward the same mission. The hospital is in the shape of a square a full square. There are many different wards including pediatrics (watoto), male, female, minor theatre (minor surgery), major theatre (major surgery), and my mind is blanking on whether or not there are more wards. The days are long and I am exhausted by the time I get back to the house. In the middle of the hospital square is a hut, where many people stay throughout the day, both patients and families.

We arrive at the hospital every morning at 730. I have come to love the culture of the Africans. Time is not of the essence, unless it is in regards to worship. At 730 sharp, everyone from the hospital, who is able, joins at the hut and has a short devo. We begin with prayer (tu ombe) and then sing in Swahili, the language that the majority of the people in this community speak. There is a short devo, with a translator for us Americans. Then we sing some more, pray, and split up to various parts of the hospital to make rounds.

I have been in peds the last two days. It is very different from an American hospital. The role of the nurse is something I am still trying to understand. The family is responsible for changing the sheets, feeding the patient, bathing the patient, which I have learned to do as a nurse. Here, the nurse is more like a doctor. I love the environment and the trust that we are given. Our responsibility is more than I would have ever expected. From little things such as sitting and smiling at patients and making sick children laugh to injecting shot after shot after shot, mixing medications, assisting with a spinal tap, pulling up drugs that are used for anesthesia, to many other activities that a nurse in America would not be qualified to do. We have the training, and I feel comfortable in this position.

But, there is also the reality of life and death. Yesterday we had two deaths in the peds unit alone. People are very sick here. The lack of clean water, food, and the deadly effects of diarrhea and vomiting is something that Americans do not have to deal with. There are resources available to fix those problems. But here, in Africa, these are the things that cause death. And it happens so fast. The women were in the ward with the children and one lady motioned me over. The language barrier is extremely frustrating but we do all that we can and we are learning fast. I would point to one thing, she would shake her head, and this would continue for five, ten, fifteen things until we finally got the right thing. She was laughing at me, and finally I got everything done and checked her baby who was extremely tachypneic. I immediately sought more assistance, and sister Janice began working on the child. I went on to work with other sick kids and then I heard a scream from across the room. The mother got up and moved away from the bed. (The entire ward is one large room) I finished what I was doing and then went over and sat on the bench with the mother. She just clung to my arms and my head and was holding on so tight. We sat there and wept together for who knows how long. Our laps were both wet from tears, and when I had enough strength to talk I asked her if I could tu ombe (pray) she nodded and said (endio) which means yes. I prayed in English, which she did not understand, but when I said amen she said asante which means thank you. As much as I wanted to stay, I needed to continue working with other children.

Another difference with the culture and medical work is that in the one large room of pediatrics, and im sure other wards, when a person dies they cover them with blankets and leave them on the bed until the family takes them away. Then, the mother took the child, wrapped her on her back with a kitenge and went home. And this was the first time my heart broke. And there are many more to come. We have experienced four deaths in the last two days, and each time, my heart mourns, breaks, and I feel like I leave a piece of me with each family that I have worked with.

Despite the sad times, there are many good stories too. On my first day we had 26 children, and about half of them have been discharged home. I have seen children not be able to breath one day, and be completely better the next day. I have given many medications and seen improvements.

And my favorite part is making people smile. The women just laugh every time I try to communicate with them. They attempt to speak to me in Swahili and thinks its so hilarious when I shrug my shoulders and giggle.

Oh! And today I whipped out some nailpolish for the mommies…. So with about three people, in about a minutes time, there were fifty or so women waiting to get their nails painted. For about an hour I sat and painted and then some of the other girls had finished in their ward and came to join me. Thank goodness or I would have been there all night long! They LOVED LOVED LOVED the nailpolish. It was such a wonderful feeling to be able to make people smile and just see their eyes light up. Hands were flashing in our faces, people were begging us to take pictures with them. It was a good way to end the day, and by end the day I mean head back to the house for dinner before we go back for rounds. For now, I need to go set the table because I am on dinner duty.

Usiku mwema (Goodnight)

Please continue to pray for us all, the team, the sick, the mourning, the families, and for our hands to do the work of the Lord. To God be the glory.

Meghan
(as the Africans say MEEGIN)

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